Fate
In the eighth grade, my class had to read Romeo and Juliet.
I told my teacher that Juliet was an idiot. For starters, she falls in love with the one guy she knows she cant have. Then she blames fate for her bad decision.
My teacher explained to me that when fate comes into play, choice sometimes goes out the window.
Maybe Romeo and Juliet were fated to be together; but just for a while, and then their time passed. If they could have known that beforehand, maybe it all would've been okay.
I said that when i was "grown-up" I would take fate into my own hands. I wouldn't let some guy drag me down.
My teacher said I'd be lucky if i ever had that kind of passion with someone.
And if i did, we'd be together forever.
Even now, i believe that for the most part, love is about choices. It's about putting down the poison and the dagger and making your own happy ending.
And sometimes, despite all your best choices and all your best intentions,
fate wins anyways.